1 00:00:09,009 --> 00:00:10,844 Previously, on It's Not Like That... 2 00:00:10,928 --> 00:00:12,679 My wife's dead. 3 00:00:12,763 --> 00:00:15,349 How can everything just keep on going on without her? 4 00:00:15,432 --> 00:00:17,392 Is this the year that goes down as, like, 5 00:00:17,476 --> 00:00:20,062 Mom and Dad got divorced and ruined our lives? 6 00:00:20,145 --> 00:00:22,356 The longer you stay somewhere temporary, 7 00:00:22,439 --> 00:00:24,399 you know, you're giving them false hope. 8 00:00:25,776 --> 00:00:29,363 When we kissed, I hadn't felt that alive in a long time. 9 00:00:29,446 --> 00:00:30,697 But it was a mistake. 10 00:00:30,781 --> 00:00:33,992 I don't know if what happened between us was because I'm lonely 11 00:00:34,076 --> 00:00:36,119 or because you were just so comfortable. 12 00:00:36,203 --> 00:00:39,331 We're so... comfortable. 13 00:00:39,414 --> 00:00:40,832 We can't. 14 00:00:40,916 --> 00:00:43,168 - That's my new client. - You're repping DJs now? 15 00:00:43,252 --> 00:00:45,712 Why don't you go over there and pin one of them? 16 00:01:19,037 --> 00:01:21,915 Girls! Stay where we can see you, please. 17 00:01:24,877 --> 00:01:26,086 This is looking good. 18 00:01:28,046 --> 00:01:30,674 You know, might be time to replace this thing. 19 00:01:30,757 --> 00:01:31,967 Don't you dare. 20 00:01:32,050 --> 00:01:34,052 I like it just the way it is. 21 00:01:34,136 --> 00:01:36,805 This sign? You know, I dug the holes with Dad, 22 00:01:36,889 --> 00:01:38,473 back when we moved in. 23 00:01:38,557 --> 00:01:41,268 It's the backdrop for all my favorite family photos. 24 00:01:41,351 --> 00:01:42,269 Mm-hmm. 25 00:01:42,352 --> 00:01:44,646 - Including our wedding. - Okay, okay. 26 00:01:44,730 --> 00:01:46,732 Okay. 27 00:01:48,442 --> 00:01:51,195 - I love everything about this old church. - Yeah? 28 00:01:51,278 --> 00:01:53,280 - Yeah, especially you. - Oh. 29 00:01:53,363 --> 00:01:54,615 Thank you. 30 00:01:57,159 --> 00:02:02,247 I've been thinking, actually, what if we partnered with other community leaders? 31 00:02:02,331 --> 00:02:05,334 Like the Temple, the Islamic Center. 32 00:02:05,417 --> 00:02:07,628 We could make this sort of an interfaith rummage sale. 33 00:02:07,711 --> 00:02:09,505 We'd definitely get more donations. 34 00:02:09,588 --> 00:02:12,424 "What unites us is stronger than what divides us." 35 00:02:12,508 --> 00:02:14,176 That's what Dad always said. 36 00:02:14,259 --> 00:02:16,678 I am all for channeling Pastor Lucas. 37 00:02:16,762 --> 00:02:19,890 And I think you just added a lot more work for us. 38 00:02:19,973 --> 00:02:21,642 Oh. 39 00:02:21,725 --> 00:02:24,186 - That's why we have two daughters. - Uh-huh. 40 00:02:24,978 --> 00:02:28,982 Just love seeing all these things find new homes, new life, you know, 41 00:02:29,066 --> 00:02:31,693 instead of sitting around in boxes in garages. 42 00:02:33,904 --> 00:02:34,988 Makes me so happy. 43 00:02:35,906 --> 00:02:37,115 I can see that. 44 00:02:48,794 --> 00:02:50,212 Oh, no, don't open that! 45 00:02:51,672 --> 00:02:53,590 I was just looking for my duffel. 46 00:02:53,674 --> 00:02:56,552 It's not in the junk closet. I took it out. 47 00:02:56,635 --> 00:02:57,845 Look under your bed. 48 00:02:59,096 --> 00:03:01,014 Yeah, Dad, I get it. 49 00:03:01,098 --> 00:03:03,016 It's an apartment building with amenities. 50 00:03:03,100 --> 00:03:06,061 It's not an apartment building, it's a townhome, okay. 51 00:03:06,144 --> 00:03:07,563 Where's Case? I want her to see as well. 52 00:03:07,646 --> 00:03:08,897 - Look, look, look. - Hi. 53 00:03:08,981 --> 00:03:10,899 It comes with a pool. 54 00:03:10,983 --> 00:03:13,819 Anytime you guys wanna swim, okay, you can-- 55 00:03:13,902 --> 00:03:17,114 - Uh, Dad, you cut out. - It's on his end, Casey. 56 00:03:17,197 --> 00:03:20,284 - They'll see you after school, okay. - See you, guys. I love you. 57 00:03:20,367 --> 00:03:22,953 - Yeah, I'm not staying there. - Uh, yeah, same. 58 00:03:24,288 --> 00:03:27,749 I want you guys to go through Mom's stuff with me and see what we can give away. 59 00:03:27,833 --> 00:03:30,627 So, you wanna get rid of everything? Just all of Mom's stuff? 60 00:03:30,711 --> 00:03:32,212 No, of course not. That's not what I mean. 61 00:03:32,296 --> 00:03:33,755 I just thought the rummage sale is this week, 62 00:03:33,839 --> 00:03:36,425 this was important to your mom, I thought we could honor that. 63 00:03:36,508 --> 00:03:37,759 Well, what about what I want? 64 00:03:37,843 --> 00:03:41,138 That is why we're gonna take our time and go through everything. 65 00:03:41,221 --> 00:03:42,681 See what we wanna donate, what we wanna keep. 66 00:03:42,764 --> 00:03:44,600 But it's not the stuff that matters. 67 00:03:44,683 --> 00:03:46,894 Uh, yeah, Dad, the stuff matters. 68 00:03:46,977 --> 00:03:51,023 - We're not just gonna erase Mom. - Penelope, no one's erasing Mom here. 69 00:03:51,899 --> 00:03:54,109 You're not getting rid of Mom's car, right? 70 00:03:54,193 --> 00:03:57,112 - Well, actually, your Mom and I thought-- - No, no! 71 00:03:57,196 --> 00:04:01,200 Okay, okay, okay. Let's table the car for a moment. 72 00:04:01,283 --> 00:04:02,367 He has no Wi-Fi. 73 00:04:02,451 --> 00:04:05,204 - He has Wi-Fi. - Okay, fine, he has crappy Wi-Fi. 74 00:04:05,287 --> 00:04:06,872 All my homework's on Google Classroom. 75 00:04:06,955 --> 00:04:09,666 Oh, and now it's all about getting your homework done? 76 00:04:09,750 --> 00:04:12,044 Okay. Guys, you are going to your dad's. 77 00:04:12,127 --> 00:04:13,837 Both of you, end of story. 78 00:04:13,921 --> 00:04:16,715 I know, I know that this is gonna be hard, okay, 79 00:04:16,798 --> 00:04:19,676 but your mom believed, we believe, in helping others when we can, 80 00:04:19,760 --> 00:04:23,639 so, let's just, let's take our time and get things organized, okay. 81 00:04:23,722 --> 00:04:25,349 Why? Why are we the ones that have to move? 82 00:04:25,432 --> 00:04:26,725 You guys are the ones that got divorced. 83 00:04:26,808 --> 00:04:28,685 Why don't you just sell the whole house while you're at it? 84 00:04:28,769 --> 00:04:29,978 Does he even have a table? 85 00:04:30,062 --> 00:04:31,730 It would've been nice to get a little heads-up, Dad. 86 00:04:31,813 --> 00:04:33,607 - And we are not sharing a room. - I don't wanna move. 87 00:04:33,690 --> 00:04:34,691 She's being sarcastic. 88 00:04:34,775 --> 00:04:38,028 - Did anyone think this through? - This is so unfair. 89 00:04:44,451 --> 00:04:46,537 It's the right thing. I know that. 90 00:04:46,620 --> 00:04:50,207 I mean, we're gonna have to go through her stuff sooner or later. 91 00:04:51,041 --> 00:04:52,459 The truth is, 92 00:04:53,168 --> 00:04:54,545 I'm ready. 93 00:04:54,628 --> 00:04:55,921 I need it. 94 00:04:56,004 --> 00:04:57,965 But it's hard for them, you know. 95 00:04:58,048 --> 00:05:02,261 I knew Jenny was sick before they did. I've had more time to grieve. 96 00:05:02,344 --> 00:05:04,388 But I think it'll be good for them. 97 00:05:05,430 --> 00:05:07,015 But I feel terrible. They-- 98 00:05:07,850 --> 00:05:09,977 They said I was trying to erase her. 99 00:05:10,561 --> 00:05:11,895 That's impossible. 100 00:05:14,147 --> 00:05:16,692 For what it's worth, I feel terrible today, 101 00:05:16,775 --> 00:05:20,153 because I am committing the horrendous crime 102 00:05:20,237 --> 00:05:23,657 of forcing my children to spend time with their father, 103 00:05:23,740 --> 00:05:24,867 who loves them. 104 00:05:25,951 --> 00:05:29,955 Although, feeling terrible is, basically, my preset these days. 105 00:05:30,038 --> 00:05:31,790 Why are you blaming yourself? 106 00:05:31,874 --> 00:05:33,709 Maybe Casey has a point. 107 00:05:34,501 --> 00:05:36,587 They didn't get divorced, we did. 108 00:05:36,670 --> 00:05:40,132 At some point, you're gonna have to cut yourself some slack. 109 00:05:40,215 --> 00:05:43,093 Especially because you know your kids aren't going to. 110 00:05:43,177 --> 00:05:45,304 It's kinda their job to make us feel guilty. 111 00:05:45,387 --> 00:05:49,057 Yeah. We don't have anything to feel guilty about. 112 00:05:52,519 --> 00:05:53,353 Right? 113 00:05:55,022 --> 00:05:55,856 Right. 114 00:06:06,867 --> 00:06:10,162 - Hey. Is it okay if I s-sit? - Hey. 115 00:06:10,245 --> 00:06:11,246 You're good. 116 00:06:17,377 --> 00:06:21,173 So, I think I might have something for you to write about. 117 00:06:22,216 --> 00:06:23,175 Oh, yeah? 118 00:06:23,759 --> 00:06:25,052 It's about us. 119 00:06:25,135 --> 00:06:26,970 Well, well, our parents. 120 00:06:27,679 --> 00:06:28,764 Oh, okay. 121 00:06:30,933 --> 00:06:32,267 What? Say it. 122 00:06:34,102 --> 00:06:36,396 I think my mom and your dad hooked up. 123 00:06:36,480 --> 00:06:37,940 - What? - Or are hooking up. 124 00:06:38,023 --> 00:06:40,192 - No, they're just friends. - I don't think so. 125 00:06:40,275 --> 00:06:41,401 - No. - I-I overheard them 126 00:06:41,485 --> 00:06:44,321 and they were talking about kissing and, like, how amazing it was, 127 00:06:44,404 --> 00:06:46,740 - and-- - No, that makes zero sense. 128 00:06:46,823 --> 00:06:50,661 My dad isn't-- He's not ready to-- You're wrong. 129 00:06:51,703 --> 00:06:53,830 I'm just telling you what I heard. 130 00:06:53,914 --> 00:06:56,083 Are you sure they were even talking about each other? 131 00:06:56,166 --> 00:06:58,752 - Did you seem them actually do anything? - I-- 132 00:06:58,836 --> 00:07:00,170 - Did you see them-- - No. 133 00:07:00,254 --> 00:07:01,338 So you don't know. 134 00:07:02,714 --> 00:07:05,467 I'm sorry. My bad. I shouldn't have said anything. 135 00:07:13,642 --> 00:07:15,769 Are you doing anything this weekend? 136 00:07:16,854 --> 00:07:17,729 Me? 137 00:07:19,022 --> 00:07:22,401 Oh, you know I was just messing with you at the Halidom. 138 00:07:22,484 --> 00:07:25,070 That's kind of what we do. It's not personal. 139 00:07:25,654 --> 00:07:26,822 Yeah, I know. 140 00:07:28,740 --> 00:07:32,911 Um, well... This weekend's gonna literally suck. 141 00:07:32,995 --> 00:07:37,082 We're going to our dad's new apartment for the first time, so, yeah. 142 00:07:37,165 --> 00:07:39,293 - Yay, divorce. - Where? 143 00:07:39,835 --> 00:07:42,171 Uh, the condo complex on Westin. 144 00:07:43,046 --> 00:07:45,883 Oh, yeah, transition townhomes. 145 00:07:45,966 --> 00:07:47,259 What? 146 00:07:47,342 --> 00:07:48,802 My dad started there, too. 147 00:07:48,886 --> 00:07:51,221 That place is, like, divorced dad central. 148 00:07:52,764 --> 00:07:55,184 My parents split when I was six. 149 00:07:55,976 --> 00:07:57,769 It was ugly. 150 00:07:58,854 --> 00:07:59,813 It still is. 151 00:08:00,689 --> 00:08:02,691 I'm, like, an expert on divorce. 152 00:08:02,774 --> 00:08:06,195 Right now, you just need to binge some super depressing reality TV 153 00:08:06,278 --> 00:08:10,115 about people's lives who suck even more. You'll feel so much better. 154 00:08:10,199 --> 00:08:14,244 And the best part is cashing in on their guilt. 155 00:08:15,037 --> 00:08:18,415 - You can get whatever you want. - Seriously? 156 00:08:18,999 --> 00:08:19,958 Pretty much. 157 00:08:22,294 --> 00:08:25,214 Hey, wait, Dakota. Why are you talking to me? 158 00:08:26,882 --> 00:08:27,966 You were here. 159 00:08:56,995 --> 00:08:59,623 Please tell me you bailed on us last night 160 00:08:59,706 --> 00:09:01,291 because you were on a hot date with Cuppa Joe? 161 00:09:01,375 --> 00:09:02,960 Oh, I wish. 162 00:09:03,043 --> 00:09:06,672 No, uh, I finally cracked open a Southern Living, 163 00:09:06,755 --> 00:09:08,882 and then I immediately fell asleep. 164 00:09:08,966 --> 00:09:11,510 And his name is Joe. Just Joe. 165 00:09:11,593 --> 00:09:12,761 Not that it matters. 166 00:09:12,845 --> 00:09:15,055 He hasn't responded to any of my texts. 167 00:09:15,138 --> 00:09:16,014 Texts? 168 00:09:16,098 --> 00:09:17,432 How many have you sent? 169 00:09:17,516 --> 00:09:20,644 - I should've kissed him. I blew it. - No. No. 170 00:09:20,727 --> 00:09:23,438 No, I mean, we genuinely had a great time. 171 00:09:23,522 --> 00:09:27,359 Like, I don't get it. What is the point of all of the DMing and the texting? 172 00:09:27,442 --> 00:09:30,404 There isn't one. Swipe right, swipe left, that's it. 173 00:09:30,487 --> 00:09:33,323 He ghosted you. It's a rite of passage. 174 00:09:33,407 --> 00:09:35,367 - Moving on. - I don't wanna move on. 175 00:09:35,450 --> 00:09:36,869 I liked him. 176 00:09:36,952 --> 00:09:39,288 I swiped so many to get to him. 177 00:09:39,371 --> 00:09:41,123 Well, men love to ghost. 178 00:09:41,206 --> 00:09:43,458 You're making me feel so much better. 179 00:09:43,542 --> 00:09:46,211 Hey. Sorry, I'm a little early. 180 00:09:46,295 --> 00:09:47,296 It's fine. 181 00:09:47,379 --> 00:09:49,214 - Hi, David. - How you doing? 182 00:09:50,591 --> 00:09:54,386 Okay, so, Claire Lesley, our favorite shared client, 183 00:09:54,469 --> 00:09:56,722 super psyched about your promo materials. 184 00:09:56,805 --> 00:09:57,973 - Good. - Well done. 185 00:09:58,056 --> 00:09:59,850 We're just talking about extending her tour, 186 00:09:59,933 --> 00:10:02,102 - adding a spring leg across... - Wait, wait, uh, 187 00:10:02,186 --> 00:10:04,646 can we talk about family schedule first? 188 00:10:04,730 --> 00:10:06,148 Yeah, sure, what's up? 189 00:10:06,231 --> 00:10:10,194 Um, the kids, they don't wanna spend the weekend at your new place. 190 00:10:10,277 --> 00:10:13,155 - Okay, tough, they don't have a choice. - Okay, well, I get that, 191 00:10:13,238 --> 00:10:16,366 but, you know, we did always say that we wanted them to have autonomy. 192 00:10:16,450 --> 00:10:18,744 - To make up their own minds about-- - Okay, Lori, 193 00:10:18,827 --> 00:10:20,996 I'm their father, right? That's where I live. 194 00:10:21,079 --> 00:10:23,999 - In the place that you told me to get. - Okay, I-- 195 00:10:28,962 --> 00:10:30,797 You guys have a text chain without me? 196 00:10:30,881 --> 00:10:33,008 You can have a text chain without me. 197 00:10:38,305 --> 00:10:40,933 Look, I know this sucks. 198 00:10:41,016 --> 00:10:43,018 No, actually, you don't. Okay? You don't. 199 00:10:43,101 --> 00:10:44,686 You're not the one in "transition townhomes." 200 00:10:44,770 --> 00:10:48,690 Casey's words, not mine. I-- I'm sorry. 201 00:10:48,774 --> 00:10:50,817 I feel like I'm trying everything here. 202 00:10:50,901 --> 00:10:52,778 I'm trying everything and nothing is getting through to them. 203 00:10:52,861 --> 00:10:53,987 Like, I-- 204 00:10:57,783 --> 00:11:00,911 I think Casey's wrestling has something to do with you. 205 00:11:00,994 --> 00:11:01,828 Yeah. 206 00:11:02,996 --> 00:11:06,166 It's just, all their stuff is at home. 207 00:11:06,250 --> 00:11:08,168 You know, their routines, like, 208 00:11:08,252 --> 00:11:10,087 they wanna sleep in their own beds. 209 00:11:12,297 --> 00:11:13,549 Okay, how about this... 210 00:11:14,925 --> 00:11:17,094 Why don't you stay at the house this weekend, 211 00:11:17,177 --> 00:11:18,971 and the kids can stay home with you? 212 00:11:19,763 --> 00:11:23,517 You know, that way you can get quality time with them, 213 00:11:23,600 --> 00:11:26,562 they'll be comfortable, and I'll be out of the way. 214 00:11:27,145 --> 00:11:30,399 - Doesn't that defeat the whole purpose? - No, it's, it's a thing. 215 00:11:30,482 --> 00:11:32,526 It's called "birdnesting." 216 00:11:32,609 --> 00:11:34,945 Malcolm sent me an article about it. 217 00:11:35,028 --> 00:11:38,615 Like, the kids stay in one place, and the parents move around. 218 00:11:39,324 --> 00:11:41,243 It's big in Scandinavia. 219 00:11:41,326 --> 00:11:44,538 Aren't they supposed to be the happiest people on earth? 220 00:11:46,290 --> 00:11:47,249 I guess so. 221 00:11:48,834 --> 00:11:50,210 Okay, where are you gonna go? 222 00:11:50,294 --> 00:11:55,757 Well, I hear there is a beautiful three-bedroom in transition townhomes. 223 00:11:56,341 --> 00:11:58,010 - I do love a pool. - Mm-hmm. 224 00:12:01,471 --> 00:12:04,391 Hey. Look who's here. Did you come to help out? 225 00:12:04,474 --> 00:12:06,268 Oh, no, I was just-- 226 00:12:06,768 --> 00:12:08,854 Can I talk to you for a second? 227 00:12:08,937 --> 00:12:09,897 Sure. 228 00:12:13,108 --> 00:12:14,109 Are you... 229 00:12:15,235 --> 00:12:16,236 Why now? 230 00:12:16,320 --> 00:12:18,447 With donating Mom's stuff. 231 00:12:19,239 --> 00:12:21,825 Uh, well, this is why. The rummage sale. 232 00:12:21,909 --> 00:12:23,952 There's no other reason? 233 00:12:25,996 --> 00:12:26,914 Are you... 234 00:12:27,831 --> 00:12:29,124 seeing someone? 235 00:12:29,875 --> 00:12:32,002 No. I'm not. 236 00:12:32,085 --> 00:12:35,339 This rummage sale was something your mom helped organize every year. 237 00:12:35,422 --> 00:12:37,424 - That's what this is. - Okay. 238 00:12:38,300 --> 00:12:40,928 But I'm not saying that I haven't thought about 239 00:12:41,011 --> 00:12:44,556 what it would be like to meet someone new. Does that upset you? 240 00:12:44,640 --> 00:12:47,559 - I-- I don't-- - Listen, Flora, 241 00:12:47,643 --> 00:12:50,938 when I-- when I counsel folks about grief, 242 00:12:51,522 --> 00:12:54,900 I tell them that there is no timeline, there is no right or wrong, 243 00:12:54,983 --> 00:12:56,235 it's just a journey. 244 00:12:56,318 --> 00:12:57,986 So, at some point, 245 00:12:58,862 --> 00:13:00,697 I will put myself out there again. 246 00:13:01,198 --> 00:13:03,992 But that'll be for me, okay. I'm not gonna give you the play-by-play. 247 00:13:04,076 --> 00:13:06,537 Good. Good. Please don't. 248 00:13:06,620 --> 00:13:09,873 I promise I will talk to you guys if I ever get serious about someone, okay? 249 00:13:09,957 --> 00:13:12,125 - Okay. Okay. - Okay. Sorry, sorry. 250 00:13:12,209 --> 00:13:15,379 Listen, um, about Mom's car, that's totally up to you. 251 00:13:15,462 --> 00:13:18,715 Think about what you wanna do, whether you wanna donate it, keep it. 252 00:13:18,799 --> 00:13:20,634 It's your call. I trust your judgment. 253 00:13:24,763 --> 00:13:26,640 Surprise! 254 00:13:27,599 --> 00:13:29,476 Uh, what's going on? Where's Mom? 255 00:13:29,560 --> 00:13:31,395 She's at my place. I'm here for the weekend. 256 00:13:31,979 --> 00:13:32,938 Why? 257 00:13:33,021 --> 00:13:34,523 It's called "birdnesting." 258 00:13:35,023 --> 00:13:36,191 Or something. 259 00:13:36,275 --> 00:13:39,570 This way you guys don't have to come to me, I come to you. Right? 260 00:13:39,653 --> 00:13:40,904 We get to spend the weekend together. 261 00:13:40,988 --> 00:13:41,989 So, we packed for nothing. 262 00:13:42,072 --> 00:13:43,740 Now, you get to unpack for me. 263 00:13:46,034 --> 00:13:48,328 - I'm gonna hit the drums. - I have homework. 264 00:13:48,412 --> 00:13:52,249 Uh, okay, um, yeah, that's cool. Homework. 265 00:13:52,332 --> 00:13:55,377 Uh, guys, hey, I'm here all weekend, okay. 266 00:14:28,118 --> 00:14:30,245 Dude. Air mattresses? 267 00:14:42,174 --> 00:14:44,051 Oh. Look at you go. 268 00:15:00,526 --> 00:15:02,361 Did you take Mom's jewelry box? 269 00:15:02,444 --> 00:15:04,613 - The one with the ivory tree on it? - No. 270 00:15:04,696 --> 00:15:07,491 Okay, well, I looked everywhere and you knew I wanted it. 271 00:15:07,574 --> 00:15:09,451 Search my side, I don't have it. 272 00:15:09,535 --> 00:15:10,619 Fine. 273 00:15:10,702 --> 00:15:11,954 Hey. Whoa. 274 00:15:12,955 --> 00:15:14,873 You don't trust me? I was kidding. 275 00:15:14,957 --> 00:15:18,043 - Could you be any messier, Flora? - Yeah, I could try. 276 00:15:26,009 --> 00:15:27,886 Are you seriously not going to help me? 277 00:15:27,970 --> 00:15:31,139 Justin is, like, a machine down there, going through Mom's stuff. 278 00:15:31,223 --> 00:15:32,683 I'm just trying to save what I can. 279 00:15:32,766 --> 00:15:35,102 He can get rid of all of it, for all I care. 280 00:15:35,185 --> 00:15:37,688 - You don't really mean that? - Yeah, I do. 281 00:15:37,771 --> 00:15:41,358 I don't wanna go through her things. I'm already dealing with her car. 282 00:15:41,441 --> 00:15:43,569 Poor Flora, she has to deal with the car. 283 00:15:43,652 --> 00:15:46,238 Hey! I feel really guilty about the car now. 284 00:15:46,321 --> 00:15:48,323 Dad says that it's all up to me. 285 00:15:49,408 --> 00:15:51,451 "I trust your judgment." 286 00:15:51,535 --> 00:15:53,662 Yeah. And then he gives me that look. 287 00:15:54,705 --> 00:15:56,498 Mm-hmm. I hate that look. 288 00:15:57,374 --> 00:15:59,668 Why can't he just yell, like normal parents? 289 00:15:59,751 --> 00:16:01,628 I don't know. 290 00:16:03,505 --> 00:16:04,381 Ooh. 291 00:16:05,632 --> 00:16:07,509 I don't think anyone's gonna buy this. 292 00:16:08,051 --> 00:16:10,971 Oh, I don't know. Kids love clothes with holes in them. 293 00:16:11,054 --> 00:16:14,057 True. They love whatever you tell them not to love 294 00:16:14,141 --> 00:16:16,143 and do whatever you tell them not to do. 295 00:16:16,226 --> 00:16:19,188 Yeah, or don't do what you, oh so carefully, tell them to do. 296 00:16:19,271 --> 00:16:21,899 Like make donations to the rummage sale. 297 00:16:21,982 --> 00:16:24,109 - Oh, Carlin coming in hot. - Already? 298 00:16:24,193 --> 00:16:27,738 Um, we're still setting up, Mr. Carlin. 299 00:16:27,821 --> 00:16:29,823 We don't need looky-loos while we do our work. 300 00:16:29,907 --> 00:16:31,366 Hey, it's a free country, isn't it? 301 00:16:31,450 --> 00:16:32,826 I know you like your deals, 302 00:16:32,910 --> 00:16:35,996 but you're not gonna get a better one just because you're here a day early. 303 00:16:36,079 --> 00:16:40,125 Ooh. One buck for the belt buckle. 304 00:16:41,084 --> 00:16:44,087 - Uh, can you please come back tomorrow? - All right, fine. 305 00:16:44,630 --> 00:16:46,840 Buck and a quarter, but that's my final offer. 306 00:16:46,924 --> 00:16:48,091 No. 307 00:16:48,175 --> 00:16:49,218 No? 308 00:16:49,301 --> 00:16:51,094 That's right, no. Not for sale. 309 00:16:51,178 --> 00:16:53,764 - But it was-- - Come back tomorrow. Please. 310 00:16:55,057 --> 00:16:58,143 - It was in the box. - Tomorrow! Please. Please! 311 00:16:59,478 --> 00:17:02,731 It's okay, Malcolm, just calm down. 312 00:17:02,814 --> 00:17:05,108 I was, uh, I was worried about the kids. 313 00:17:05,192 --> 00:17:07,444 - Sorry, I didn't mean to-- - No, please, 314 00:17:07,528 --> 00:17:10,030 this is going to be hard this year. 315 00:17:10,113 --> 00:17:12,366 That's from Pastor Malcolm's rodeo days. 316 00:17:12,449 --> 00:17:13,992 Lot of sentimental value. 317 00:17:16,453 --> 00:17:17,913 - Sorry. - You'll be fine. You'll be fine. 318 00:17:19,998 --> 00:17:20,832 Mm. 319 00:17:22,459 --> 00:17:25,796 Hey. Thought I'd go old-school today. 320 00:17:29,174 --> 00:17:31,677 What? You guys love this. 321 00:17:32,261 --> 00:17:33,554 Or you do. 322 00:17:33,637 --> 00:17:35,556 I-I do. Yeah, it's fun. 323 00:17:36,139 --> 00:17:38,433 All right, Case, come on, you get the plantains, 324 00:17:38,517 --> 00:17:41,186 I got the rice and beans, the meat'll be ready in about an hour. 325 00:17:41,270 --> 00:17:44,523 Uh, yeah, I'm not really a red meat person anymore. 326 00:17:54,074 --> 00:17:56,201 But this is good, Dad. Thanks. 327 00:18:24,897 --> 00:18:26,190 Hey. 328 00:18:26,273 --> 00:18:27,649 New to the building? 329 00:18:29,735 --> 00:18:30,777 Larry Talia. 330 00:18:34,907 --> 00:18:35,741 And you are? 331 00:18:38,327 --> 00:18:39,161 Lori. 332 00:18:40,245 --> 00:18:42,164 Larry and Lori? Come on. 333 00:18:42,789 --> 00:18:45,209 - What are the odds? - Yeah. 334 00:18:46,335 --> 00:18:49,421 So, uh, there's a great new sushi spot that just opened. 335 00:18:49,505 --> 00:18:51,006 If you're free for dinner, I'd love to take you. 336 00:18:51,089 --> 00:18:55,385 Larry, to be honest, I'm just here for a little me time. 337 00:18:55,469 --> 00:18:57,804 - So... - Right. 338 00:19:02,518 --> 00:19:04,228 - Hey, Lar. - Mike. 339 00:19:04,853 --> 00:19:06,104 - Pete. - Hey. 340 00:19:06,188 --> 00:19:07,523 Lori, Mike, Pete. 341 00:19:08,232 --> 00:19:11,860 Okay. I-- Um-- 342 00:19:22,955 --> 00:19:24,289 What's he doing down there? 343 00:19:26,750 --> 00:19:28,752 Hey, guys. Hey. 344 00:19:28,836 --> 00:19:30,379 Come on, I got a great idea. 345 00:19:31,046 --> 00:19:33,882 Come on. Let's go. You guys are gonna love this. Come on. 346 00:20:03,245 --> 00:20:06,623 ♪Coming out of my cage And I've been doing just fine ♪ 347 00:20:06,707 --> 00:20:09,585 ♪Gotta, gotta be down Because I want it all ♪ 348 00:20:09,668 --> 00:20:13,172 ♪It started out with a kiss How did it end up like this ♪ 349 00:20:13,255 --> 00:20:16,300 ♪It was only a kiss It was only a kiss ♪ 350 00:20:16,383 --> 00:20:19,261 ♪Now I'm falling asleep And she's calling a cab ♪ 351 00:20:19,344 --> 00:20:22,806 ♪While he's having a smoke And she's taking a drag ♪ 352 00:20:22,890 --> 00:20:26,143 ♪Now they're going to bed And my stomach is sick ♪ 353 00:20:26,226 --> 00:20:28,187 ♪And it's all in my head-- ♪ 354 00:20:28,270 --> 00:20:30,189 Ooh. Ooh. 355 00:20:30,772 --> 00:20:33,066 What? No. 356 00:20:34,067 --> 00:20:34,902 What? 357 00:20:36,278 --> 00:20:37,487 Hello. 358 00:20:40,699 --> 00:20:41,825 Hey, Lori. 359 00:20:41,909 --> 00:20:44,328 - Malcolm. - What's wrong? 360 00:20:44,411 --> 00:20:47,664 I don't know. I'm naked in my ex-husband's bed, freaking out. 361 00:20:48,999 --> 00:20:50,709 That didn't-- 362 00:20:51,418 --> 00:20:52,586 Okay. 363 00:20:52,669 --> 00:20:55,005 I just forgot my pajamas. 364 00:20:55,088 --> 00:20:57,090 Also, I don't know what I'm doing here. 365 00:20:57,174 --> 00:20:58,383 Can you come over? 366 00:20:58,467 --> 00:21:00,260 Sure, uh, I'm on my way. 367 00:21:01,887 --> 00:21:05,766 - Virginia, can you finish up without me? - Of course. Everything all right? 368 00:21:06,391 --> 00:21:08,810 - Just a congregate in crisis. - Oh. 369 00:21:10,312 --> 00:21:13,190 Okay, so you wanna come in here, now hook your arm under his, right, 370 00:21:13,273 --> 00:21:15,150 that's an arm bar. Casey. 371 00:21:15,234 --> 00:21:17,027 Hello? Come on, girl, pay attention. 372 00:21:17,110 --> 00:21:19,488 Two generations of Soto wrestlers teaching you here. 373 00:21:19,571 --> 00:21:21,281 - It's in your blood, girl. Right? - Yep. Yep. 374 00:21:21,365 --> 00:21:22,199 - Come on. - Sorry. 375 00:21:22,282 --> 00:21:25,202 So this is when you have the leverage to pin his arm back, like... 376 00:21:25,786 --> 00:21:29,206 Merritt, come on, man, we're just demonstrating. 377 00:21:30,123 --> 00:21:32,167 Like that. Right? 378 00:21:32,251 --> 00:21:34,294 Like this. Then you have the advantage. 379 00:21:34,378 --> 00:21:35,796 Right? 'Cause you got him trapped. 380 00:21:35,879 --> 00:21:37,589 That's when you wanna roll him on his back. 381 00:21:37,673 --> 00:21:39,424 - Or her. - Or her, of course. Or her. 382 00:21:40,509 --> 00:21:42,427 Merritt. Come on, man, we're just teaching your sister how to-- 383 00:21:42,511 --> 00:21:44,179 That's when you swivel out your hips, 384 00:21:44,263 --> 00:21:45,514 create a new base... 385 00:21:46,348 --> 00:21:47,891 That's called a reverse. 386 00:21:48,767 --> 00:21:51,311 This is called a cross-face cradle. 387 00:21:55,858 --> 00:21:57,276 Is this what we're doing? 388 00:21:57,359 --> 00:21:58,610 Very tough to escape. 389 00:21:58,694 --> 00:22:00,445 Okay, yeah, I get it. 390 00:22:00,529 --> 00:22:02,531 Okay. All right. All right, Mer. 391 00:22:03,031 --> 00:22:04,157 Merritt, stop! 392 00:22:04,241 --> 00:22:06,493 - Merritt! - Merritt, come on, man. I'm tapping out. 393 00:22:06,577 --> 00:22:07,870 Stop! Merritt! 394 00:22:16,587 --> 00:22:17,921 What is the matter with you? 395 00:22:18,005 --> 00:22:19,590 We're just trying to have some fun here, Merritt. 396 00:22:19,673 --> 00:22:20,591 Fun? 397 00:22:21,175 --> 00:22:23,927 Yeah, Dad, this is, this is so much fun. 398 00:22:26,096 --> 00:22:28,974 - Buddy, I'm trying my best here. - Your best? 399 00:22:29,057 --> 00:22:31,476 This is your best? 400 00:22:31,560 --> 00:22:33,437 It's more, like, desperate. 401 00:22:35,981 --> 00:22:37,649 Son, what do you want me to do? 402 00:22:38,317 --> 00:22:39,943 - What do you want me to do? - Dad, 403 00:22:40,027 --> 00:22:41,904 you can't just come here and play house 404 00:22:41,987 --> 00:22:43,947 like you're not the reason all of this happened. 405 00:22:44,031 --> 00:22:45,157 You did this. 406 00:22:45,240 --> 00:22:46,116 To us. 407 00:22:46,200 --> 00:22:47,534 Because you're selfish. 408 00:22:48,035 --> 00:22:49,203 Did you know Mom's... 409 00:22:51,121 --> 00:22:52,122 Mom what? 410 00:22:54,124 --> 00:22:55,709 You don't belong here anymore. 411 00:22:59,379 --> 00:23:00,214 Merritt. 412 00:23:12,351 --> 00:23:14,520 - Thanks for coming over. - Of course. 413 00:23:14,603 --> 00:23:16,688 - You okay? - No. 414 00:23:16,772 --> 00:23:19,775 Just being here, it's like... 415 00:23:19,858 --> 00:23:21,568 He's got all these new clothes, 416 00:23:21,652 --> 00:23:24,071 and, like, he wears body spray now? 417 00:23:24,154 --> 00:23:26,365 - Mm. - It's just this place. 418 00:23:26,448 --> 00:23:30,369 It is so empty and soulless. 419 00:23:30,452 --> 00:23:31,620 Blah. 420 00:23:32,538 --> 00:23:35,290 I mean, the TV and surround sound are working. 421 00:23:35,374 --> 00:23:37,251 Of course he set those up first, 422 00:23:37,334 --> 00:23:39,336 but I don't know... 423 00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:42,422 I look at this place, and I... 424 00:23:42,506 --> 00:23:44,758 A part of me is so sad. 425 00:23:45,634 --> 00:23:48,720 But then, part of me is jealous. 426 00:23:49,471 --> 00:23:51,431 He gets to start over. 427 00:23:51,515 --> 00:23:54,768 This place is literally a blank slate. 428 00:23:56,812 --> 00:23:57,771 He can... 429 00:23:58,689 --> 00:24:01,024 totally reinvent himself, and I... 430 00:24:02,025 --> 00:24:03,026 I get that. 431 00:24:03,944 --> 00:24:05,654 I'd love to do that. 432 00:24:06,738 --> 00:24:07,823 So, what happened? 433 00:24:08,615 --> 00:24:10,325 I don't know. 434 00:24:12,828 --> 00:24:15,414 I got into bed early with my magazines, 435 00:24:15,497 --> 00:24:17,583 which I haven't had any time to read. 436 00:24:19,877 --> 00:24:21,962 - But I was wearing his shirt. - Mm. 437 00:24:22,045 --> 00:24:23,463 And I just... 438 00:24:27,718 --> 00:24:28,635 Yeah. 439 00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:32,181 - What's in the bag? - Oh. 440 00:24:32,264 --> 00:24:34,641 Pajamas. Uh, they should fit you, too. 441 00:24:36,185 --> 00:24:37,644 They're Flora rejects. 442 00:24:37,728 --> 00:24:40,981 Apparently, I missed the window on her Phoebe Bridgers phase. 443 00:24:43,275 --> 00:24:45,277 Kinda with you on this place being sad. 444 00:24:45,986 --> 00:24:47,196 But, um... 445 00:24:48,697 --> 00:24:49,948 He chose this. 446 00:24:50,032 --> 00:24:51,033 Yeah. 447 00:24:51,617 --> 00:24:52,951 This is what he wanted. 448 00:24:53,535 --> 00:24:55,078 More than he wanted me. 449 00:24:57,372 --> 00:24:59,208 What does that say? 450 00:25:01,502 --> 00:25:04,213 You know, I've, uh, I've helped a lot of people 451 00:25:05,881 --> 00:25:07,174 through divorces, 452 00:25:07,257 --> 00:25:10,385 and there's never any one reason why things go wrong. 453 00:25:11,220 --> 00:25:12,179 So... 454 00:25:13,555 --> 00:25:16,266 I think the best way through this is just, 455 00:25:17,017 --> 00:25:19,269 you know, open and honest communication. 456 00:25:19,353 --> 00:25:21,480 Well, that sounds a lot like Pastor Malcolm. 457 00:25:21,563 --> 00:25:23,649 Yeah. 458 00:25:24,149 --> 00:25:25,776 I wanted friend Malcolm. 459 00:25:27,945 --> 00:25:31,949 Friend Malcolm thinks Pastor Malcolm has pretty good insights. 460 00:25:33,951 --> 00:25:34,910 Okay. 461 00:25:40,374 --> 00:25:41,208 Hey. 462 00:25:41,792 --> 00:25:44,753 I looked everywhere for Mom's jewelry box. 463 00:25:44,837 --> 00:25:48,006 I couldn't find it, but I'm sure it'll turn up. 464 00:25:48,590 --> 00:25:50,133 Justin knows not to donate it. 465 00:25:51,510 --> 00:25:54,179 So, I thought 466 00:25:54,263 --> 00:25:57,182 you might like to keep this. 467 00:26:08,735 --> 00:26:09,987 Beautiful. 468 00:26:13,031 --> 00:26:15,242 - What was that? - Uh... 469 00:26:15,325 --> 00:26:18,078 Justin's in, like, full purge mode. 470 00:26:19,872 --> 00:26:21,623 - Yeah. - Mm-hmm. 471 00:26:26,879 --> 00:26:29,464 I moved all of Mom's stuff in here to sort through it, 472 00:26:29,548 --> 00:26:31,925 but I don't want your help if you guys are gonna fight. 473 00:26:32,009 --> 00:26:33,635 - We're not fighting. - Yeah. 474 00:26:33,719 --> 00:26:36,430 You know, Justin, the whole "Dad's good little boy" routine, 475 00:26:36,513 --> 00:26:38,891 - you know you're making us look bad? - I can't help it. 476 00:26:40,642 --> 00:26:43,437 This is the book that Mom used to teach me piano. 477 00:26:45,814 --> 00:26:47,649 I picked this out for her at the mall. 478 00:26:48,275 --> 00:26:50,068 She said it was so... 479 00:26:50,652 --> 00:26:51,820 California. 480 00:26:51,904 --> 00:26:53,530 Whatever that means. 481 00:26:55,282 --> 00:26:57,367 - She should've worn it more. - Yeah. 482 00:26:57,451 --> 00:26:59,578 - It's so her. - Yeah. 483 00:27:01,455 --> 00:27:05,334 All right, Justin, so, uh, what's the deal? What's your system? 484 00:27:05,417 --> 00:27:08,837 Anything that's a definite donate, goes to the left. 485 00:27:08,921 --> 00:27:11,840 Anything that's a definite keep, goes to the right. 486 00:27:12,424 --> 00:27:14,468 And the maybes go in the middle. 487 00:27:25,145 --> 00:27:28,273 Um, Merritt's outside. You are on Justin duty. 488 00:27:31,276 --> 00:27:33,111 I can't even look at him. 489 00:27:34,112 --> 00:27:35,572 Casey says he's trying. 490 00:27:36,782 --> 00:27:38,283 But it, it's too late. 491 00:27:39,284 --> 00:27:42,120 He doesn't think of anyone but himself. 492 00:27:42,788 --> 00:27:45,666 I-I shouldn't have to tell him how to be a good dad. 493 00:27:47,376 --> 00:27:48,919 I'm sorry. I-- Sorry. 494 00:27:49,545 --> 00:27:51,672 He's just, he's, he's... 495 00:27:51,755 --> 00:27:53,257 He's acting so fake. 496 00:27:53,340 --> 00:27:55,050 No, please, say it. 497 00:27:57,719 --> 00:27:59,054 You are... 498 00:28:01,139 --> 00:28:02,391 nothing like that. 499 00:28:03,559 --> 00:28:04,643 You're... 500 00:28:05,727 --> 00:28:06,895 you're real. 501 00:28:07,980 --> 00:28:09,189 And... 502 00:28:10,941 --> 00:28:12,276 you're always yourself. 503 00:28:17,489 --> 00:28:20,576 Do you wanna go for a ride? I have a permit. 504 00:28:24,121 --> 00:28:25,914 Um, are you serious? 505 00:28:26,748 --> 00:28:27,916 Yeah. 506 00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:30,169 - You have a license. - I do. 507 00:28:30,252 --> 00:28:32,254 - I have a car. - Yes. 508 00:28:32,337 --> 00:28:33,630 Mm. 509 00:28:35,591 --> 00:28:38,051 - Come on. You wanna go? You wanna go? - All right. 510 00:28:38,135 --> 00:28:39,136 Let's go. Let's go. 511 00:30:01,009 --> 00:30:04,263 ♪People see us everywhere ♪ 512 00:30:05,222 --> 00:30:08,809 ♪They think you really care ♪ 513 00:30:09,726 --> 00:30:12,938 ♪But myself I can't deceive ♪ 514 00:30:13,814 --> 00:30:18,610 ♪I know it's only make-believe ♪ 515 00:30:18,694 --> 00:30:23,073 ♪Pa-pa-pa-pa... ♪ 516 00:30:24,199 --> 00:30:26,994 ♪My one and only prayer ♪ 517 00:30:27,077 --> 00:30:29,997 ♪Is that some day you'll care ♪ 518 00:30:30,080 --> 00:30:32,875 ♪My hopes, my dreams come true ♪ 519 00:30:32,958 --> 00:30:35,669 ♪My one and only you... ♪ 520 00:30:40,048 --> 00:30:41,341 They're both asleep. 521 00:30:41,425 --> 00:30:43,135 Okay. Is Casey on her back? 522 00:30:43,719 --> 00:30:46,138 Uh... Yes, she's on her back. 523 00:30:46,221 --> 00:30:48,765 Hey, because she likes to roll over onto her stomach, 524 00:30:48,849 --> 00:30:51,310 and the pediatrician said that the number one-- 525 00:30:55,355 --> 00:31:00,611 Okay, um, so that means we have 78 minutes before she's hungry again. 526 00:31:01,320 --> 00:31:02,154 What? 527 00:31:02,237 --> 00:31:04,406 My breastfeeding log is very accurate. 528 00:31:04,489 --> 00:31:07,284 We should make the most of these next 78 minutes. 529 00:31:10,537 --> 00:31:11,872 Mm. 530 00:31:12,456 --> 00:31:14,958 - I love this song. - Mm-hmm. 531 00:31:15,042 --> 00:31:17,753 - This sounds great in here, doesn't it? - Yeah. 532 00:31:18,670 --> 00:31:20,005 It's a little echoey. 533 00:31:20,714 --> 00:31:23,550 - I-I'm not complaining. No. - Mm-hmm. 534 00:31:24,301 --> 00:31:27,429 God bless Jenny and Malcolm for telling us about this place. 535 00:31:28,055 --> 00:31:29,139 It's just... 536 00:31:29,973 --> 00:31:31,391 so empty. 537 00:31:32,476 --> 00:31:34,436 Well, let's fill it up, then. 538 00:31:34,520 --> 00:31:36,563 Okay. 539 00:31:36,647 --> 00:31:39,066 Why do you think I bought us such a big house? 540 00:31:39,149 --> 00:31:39,983 Huh? 541 00:31:44,905 --> 00:31:49,034 Do you remember when you thought Conway Twitty was a cartoon character? 542 00:31:50,953 --> 00:31:52,287 - Take it back. - No. 543 00:31:52,371 --> 00:31:54,748 - I will drop you. I will-- - No. No. 544 00:31:57,042 --> 00:31:59,211 Okay, fine. I admit it. 545 00:31:59,795 --> 00:32:01,171 Mm-hmm. 546 00:32:01,255 --> 00:32:03,507 You know more about music than I do. 547 00:32:04,633 --> 00:32:07,261 That means more to me than hearing you love me. 548 00:32:07,761 --> 00:32:08,679 Well, I do. 549 00:32:09,680 --> 00:32:12,057 ♪You are my every dream ♪ 550 00:32:12,140 --> 00:32:18,146 ♪But it's only make-believe ♪ 551 00:32:19,481 --> 00:32:21,233 ♪Make believe ♪ 552 00:32:40,085 --> 00:32:45,132 You know, you can get pulled over for driving too slow. 553 00:32:45,215 --> 00:32:46,091 Right? 554 00:32:51,180 --> 00:32:53,223 Whoa. 555 00:32:53,307 --> 00:32:55,559 Oh. 556 00:33:22,753 --> 00:33:25,923 At least you can still count on David to stock the freezer with ice cream. 557 00:33:26,006 --> 00:33:27,216 Yes. 558 00:33:27,299 --> 00:33:29,635 I'm not sure what else he was going to feed them. 559 00:33:35,724 --> 00:33:38,685 I'm sorry. I didn't mean to keep you here so late. 560 00:33:38,769 --> 00:33:40,979 - I'm sure the kids are wondering-- - No, no. 561 00:33:41,063 --> 00:33:42,940 - Uh-uh. - No, it's fine. 562 00:33:43,023 --> 00:33:45,234 Really. I'm fine. 563 00:33:46,151 --> 00:33:47,778 - You sure? Okay. - Yes. 564 00:33:47,861 --> 00:33:50,113 Pastor Malcolm was very helpful. 565 00:33:51,073 --> 00:33:52,533 So was my friend Malcolm. 566 00:34:00,707 --> 00:34:01,542 Whoa. 567 00:34:01,625 --> 00:34:03,126 Okay, learner's permit. 568 00:34:03,210 --> 00:34:04,628 Uh... 569 00:34:05,629 --> 00:34:06,630 You can't stop here. 570 00:34:07,339 --> 00:34:08,757 That's my dad. 571 00:34:10,300 --> 00:34:12,302 Coming out of my dad's place. 572 00:34:13,971 --> 00:34:17,057 Where my mom is birdnesting, or whatever. 573 00:34:18,976 --> 00:34:19,810 Hey, what's up? 574 00:34:19,893 --> 00:34:21,019 I'm in Lori's bed. 575 00:34:22,062 --> 00:34:24,481 - And you're freaking out. - Uh, yep, mm-hmm. 576 00:34:24,565 --> 00:34:27,651 I don't know, man, just being back in this house, Malc, like... 577 00:34:27,734 --> 00:34:29,903 The sheets, they smell like her. 578 00:34:31,446 --> 00:34:33,782 Yeah, well, that's, that's where she sleeps. 579 00:34:35,117 --> 00:34:36,493 I can't stay in this room. 580 00:34:36,577 --> 00:34:38,620 I can't do it. Hey, I'm gonna come over, okay? 581 00:34:38,704 --> 00:34:41,832 No. No, no, no. Uh, I'm not home. Um... 582 00:34:42,416 --> 00:34:46,753 Uh... You know what? I'll come to you. I'll be there in a few. 583 00:34:46,837 --> 00:34:47,796 All right. 584 00:34:57,806 --> 00:35:00,392 See, I-I knew something was going on between them. 585 00:35:00,475 --> 00:35:02,269 Your dad is doing the walk of shame. 586 00:35:02,352 --> 00:35:04,605 Okay, you don't know that that's what's on. 587 00:35:04,688 --> 00:35:06,565 - They could just be-- - What? What? 588 00:35:06,648 --> 00:35:08,567 Spending time in my dad's bachelor pad? 589 00:35:08,650 --> 00:35:10,819 So much for my parents ever getting back together. 590 00:35:10,903 --> 00:35:13,780 Merritt, I asked my dad if he was seeing anyone, 591 00:35:13,864 --> 00:35:14,698 he said no. 592 00:35:15,407 --> 00:35:18,202 He's a pastor. He doesn't know how to do the walk of shame. 593 00:35:18,285 --> 00:35:19,536 Look. 594 00:35:19,620 --> 00:35:22,247 I know you see the world in this rosy way 595 00:35:22,331 --> 00:35:23,957 because of who your dad is, 596 00:35:24,041 --> 00:35:26,043 - but-- - I'm not as innocent as you think. 597 00:35:26,585 --> 00:35:28,045 I just know my father, 598 00:35:28,128 --> 00:35:29,630 and he would never lie to me. 599 00:35:32,049 --> 00:35:33,342 Parents lie. 600 00:35:35,427 --> 00:35:36,762 They lie. 601 00:35:36,845 --> 00:35:38,388 All the time. 602 00:35:46,939 --> 00:35:49,399 I don't know, Malcolm. I-I chose the divorce. 603 00:35:49,483 --> 00:35:51,401 Right? Like, I chose to leave this house. 604 00:35:52,194 --> 00:35:54,738 I don't know, man, just being back here, like... 605 00:35:55,322 --> 00:35:56,490 I miss it. 606 00:35:57,658 --> 00:35:59,243 I miss it. I miss the kids. 607 00:36:00,202 --> 00:36:01,703 Is it possible I miss my wife? 608 00:36:04,331 --> 00:36:05,457 Ex-wife? 609 00:36:06,708 --> 00:36:08,669 Of course, it's possible. 610 00:36:08,752 --> 00:36:11,755 It's really hard to move forward without looking back. 611 00:36:12,256 --> 00:36:14,716 Maybe I'm just a "grass is always greener" kind of guy. 612 00:36:14,800 --> 00:36:15,634 Mm. 613 00:36:16,468 --> 00:36:19,388 You know, I lost it today at the church on this guy 614 00:36:19,972 --> 00:36:23,308 wanting to buy a cowboy belt buckle that Jenny bought me as a joke. 615 00:36:23,392 --> 00:36:25,102 That I've literally never worn. 616 00:36:25,185 --> 00:36:26,812 Totally chewed this poor guy out. 617 00:36:28,856 --> 00:36:30,691 Right? You mean, you politely told him no. 618 00:36:30,774 --> 00:36:33,443 Hey. I raised my voice. I'm a human being. 619 00:36:34,611 --> 00:36:36,238 Although, I did say please. 620 00:36:36,321 --> 00:36:37,531 Numerous times. 621 00:36:39,700 --> 00:36:43,453 I don't know. I think we both just need to find a way forward. 622 00:36:44,496 --> 00:36:47,040 I'm really sorry you're having a hard time. Truly. 623 00:36:48,250 --> 00:36:50,043 Guess I'm reaping what I sow, right? 624 00:36:52,171 --> 00:36:53,088 How is she? 625 00:36:53,839 --> 00:36:54,673 Lori. 626 00:36:54,756 --> 00:36:57,134 You're spending a lot of time with her, how's she doing? 627 00:36:57,217 --> 00:36:59,887 Uh, she's great. She's great. 628 00:37:04,433 --> 00:37:06,101 Hey, you know that, uh, 629 00:37:06,185 --> 00:37:08,687 the woman from your office, the accountant. 630 00:37:08,770 --> 00:37:09,855 - Sarah? - Yeah. 631 00:37:10,480 --> 00:37:11,315 Yeah. 632 00:37:11,398 --> 00:37:13,859 Wouldn't hurt to have a cup of coffee with her, right? 633 00:37:17,487 --> 00:37:19,656 Mm. 634 00:37:19,740 --> 00:37:22,242 - Oh. - Couldn't hurt anyone. 635 00:37:29,374 --> 00:37:31,710 - You're welcome. - Thank you. 636 00:37:41,178 --> 00:37:42,179 All right. 637 00:37:53,607 --> 00:37:55,692 Hey, Dad. We kept a few things. 638 00:37:55,776 --> 00:37:56,610 Hey. 639 00:37:58,862 --> 00:38:00,239 Oh, Pen. 640 00:38:00,948 --> 00:38:02,658 That looks fabulous on you. 641 00:38:02,741 --> 00:38:04,326 - Flora picked it out. - Wow. 642 00:38:05,369 --> 00:38:07,621 Um, but everything in the boxes, we can donate. 643 00:38:07,704 --> 00:38:09,998 I'm proud of you guys. Thank you. I'll take that. 644 00:38:10,582 --> 00:38:11,583 Hey, Miriam, 645 00:38:11,667 --> 00:38:14,169 my kid just brought in quite a haul for Grace Community. 646 00:38:14,253 --> 00:38:15,879 - Oh, yeah. - Mm-hmm. 647 00:38:15,963 --> 00:38:18,966 - What's the wager this year? - A steak dinner at Marlowe's. 648 00:38:19,049 --> 00:38:20,676 Uh, well, I like my odds, 649 00:38:20,759 --> 00:38:22,469 and I like my steak medium rare. 650 00:38:22,553 --> 00:38:24,972 - He's already gloating. - Uh-huh. 651 00:38:25,055 --> 00:38:26,765 Just please don't gloat as hard as Yousef. 652 00:38:26,849 --> 00:38:28,016 - Oh. - I don't gloat. 653 00:38:28,100 --> 00:38:29,434 I just glow. 654 00:38:29,518 --> 00:38:30,978 'Cause my people are so generous. 655 00:38:35,941 --> 00:38:36,942 Malcolm. 656 00:38:38,819 --> 00:38:40,112 - Hey. - Hi. 657 00:38:40,195 --> 00:38:41,029 Hey. 658 00:38:42,614 --> 00:38:43,615 - Hi, there. - Um, 659 00:38:43,699 --> 00:38:46,159 I just wanted to say thank you for last night. 660 00:38:46,243 --> 00:38:47,452 For talking me down. 661 00:38:47,536 --> 00:38:48,787 Of course. 662 00:38:50,372 --> 00:38:52,374 - Oh. Excuse me. - Go, go, go. 663 00:38:55,711 --> 00:38:57,588 Hey, buddy, thanks so much for coming by last night. 664 00:38:57,671 --> 00:38:59,756 Oh, of course. Yeah. 665 00:39:12,436 --> 00:39:13,270 Hi. 666 00:39:14,980 --> 00:39:17,274 I went through my room. I'm gonna donate this stuff. 667 00:39:17,357 --> 00:39:19,026 Oh. Thank you, Flora. 668 00:39:19,651 --> 00:39:20,903 - Dad. - Mm. 669 00:39:22,321 --> 00:39:25,407 I think Mom would want you to put yourself out there. 670 00:39:26,825 --> 00:39:27,826 Thanks, sweetie. 671 00:39:29,244 --> 00:39:30,579 And I'm keeping her car. 672 00:39:30,662 --> 00:39:32,706 It's yours. 673 00:39:33,457 --> 00:39:34,333 Virginia! 674 00:39:35,250 --> 00:39:37,211 Okay, so this whole house swap thing... 675 00:39:37,294 --> 00:39:38,795 - Yeah. - It doesn't work. 676 00:39:39,379 --> 00:39:42,216 It's not my home anymore, Lori. I have a home. 677 00:39:42,299 --> 00:39:45,093 And I'm starting a new life and they need to be there to be a part of it. 678 00:39:45,177 --> 00:39:46,053 I agree. 679 00:39:47,221 --> 00:39:50,015 - Okay. Okay, good. - Yeah. Yeah. 680 00:39:56,063 --> 00:39:58,315 I left a little surprise at the house for you. 681 00:39:59,149 --> 00:40:00,859 - I hate surprises. - No, you don't. 682 00:40:00,943 --> 00:40:03,445 You say you hate them, but you secretly love them. 683 00:40:04,947 --> 00:40:06,198 Yeah. 684 00:40:18,836 --> 00:40:20,546 How's that look? Good? 685 00:40:23,048 --> 00:40:24,174 How's it look? 686 00:40:26,218 --> 00:40:27,678 Oink, oink. 687 00:40:30,430 --> 00:40:31,640 Me. 688 00:40:31,723 --> 00:40:32,891 It's perfect. 689 00:40:37,771 --> 00:40:38,730 Thanks. 690 00:40:39,398 --> 00:40:40,232 Thank you. 691 00:40:47,239 --> 00:40:48,907 Good job. Good job. 692 00:40:48,991 --> 00:40:52,286 So, you're saying we have to literally pack and unpack every other weekend? 693 00:40:52,369 --> 00:40:54,037 Yeah. That is what I'm literally saying. 694 00:40:54,830 --> 00:40:57,416 And like everything in life, you will get used to it. 695 00:40:57,499 --> 00:40:58,333 Okay. 696 00:40:58,417 --> 00:41:00,043 Also, you're gonna start tonight. 697 00:41:00,127 --> 00:41:01,753 Screw the Scandinavians. 698 00:41:01,837 --> 00:41:03,672 - Tonight? - How about right now? 699 00:41:03,755 --> 00:41:07,467 Come on. We could hit up IKEA, Target, wherever you guys wanna go. 700 00:41:07,551 --> 00:41:09,052 You get to pick out your beds. 701 00:41:09,136 --> 00:41:10,345 Decorate your own rooms. 702 00:41:10,429 --> 00:41:12,973 Seriously, I want you guys to make this place feel like your own. 703 00:41:13,056 --> 00:41:13,891 Okay? 704 00:41:15,100 --> 00:41:15,934 What? 705 00:41:16,018 --> 00:41:18,478 Did you think I was gonna let them sleep on an air mattress? 706 00:41:18,562 --> 00:41:21,064 I-- No, no. No. I-- 707 00:41:21,148 --> 00:41:23,150 It's-- I think it's a great idea. Okay. 708 00:41:23,233 --> 00:41:25,527 Also, I can't wait for you to see that pool, 709 00:41:25,611 --> 00:41:26,945 so relaxing. 710 00:41:27,029 --> 00:41:28,780 Lovely neighbors, too. 711 00:41:29,364 --> 00:41:30,741 - Bye, Mom. - Bye. 712 00:41:30,824 --> 00:41:31,742 Bye. 713 00:41:31,825 --> 00:41:32,993 - Bye. - Bye. 714 00:41:34,286 --> 00:41:37,206 Bye. Bye, guys. 715 00:42:20,374 --> 00:42:24,169 ♪People see us everywhere ♪ 716 00:42:24,837 --> 00:42:28,382 ♪They think you really care ♪ 717 00:42:29,383 --> 00:42:32,845 ♪But myself I can't deceive ♪ 718 00:42:33,470 --> 00:42:38,433 ♪I know it's only make-believe ♪ 719 00:42:38,517 --> 00:42:42,145 ♪Pa-pa-pa... ♪ 720 00:42:43,981 --> 00:42:46,358 ♪My one and only prayer ♪ 721 00:42:46,942 --> 00:42:49,403 ♪Is that someday you'll care ♪ 722 00:42:49,486 --> 00:42:51,989 ♪My hopes and my dreams come true ♪ 723 00:42:52,072 --> 00:42:56,577 So, uh, I have a math test Monday. So, I gotta go study. 724 00:42:56,660 --> 00:42:58,495 Yeah, no worries, I got the dishes. 725 00:42:59,746 --> 00:43:01,790 - Hey, I love you. - Okay. 726 00:43:02,708 --> 00:43:04,877 - Mm. Love you so much. - I love you, too. 727 00:43:05,878 --> 00:43:06,712 Bye. 728 00:43:12,843 --> 00:43:14,011 Hey, I'm sorry. Okay. 729 00:43:15,220 --> 00:43:16,096 For what? 730 00:43:18,724 --> 00:43:19,766 For all of it. 731 00:43:21,143 --> 00:43:22,561 I just want us to be... 732 00:43:25,939 --> 00:43:28,650 I want us to be good, Merritt, as a family. 733 00:43:30,485 --> 00:43:31,612 What can I do? 734 00:43:37,409 --> 00:43:38,327 What? 735 00:43:40,787 --> 00:43:43,498 If you want things to get better, talk to your buddy Malcolm. 736 00:43:46,793 --> 00:43:48,545 Malcolm and Mom are hooking up. 737 00:43:58,305 --> 00:44:01,683 ♪I'm coming out of my cage And I've been doing just fine ♪ 738 00:44:01,767 --> 00:44:04,645 ♪Gotta gotta be down Because I want it all ♪ 739 00:44:04,728 --> 00:44:07,940 ♪It started out with a kiss How did it end up like this ♪ 740 00:44:08,023 --> 00:44:11,193 ♪It was only a kiss It was only a kiss ♪ 741 00:44:11,276 --> 00:44:15,781 ♪Jealousy Turning saints into the sea ♪ 742 00:44:15,864 --> 00:44:19,076 ♪Swimming through sick lullabies ♪ 743 00:44:19,159 --> 00:44:22,454 ♪Choking on your alibis ♪ 744 00:44:22,538 --> 00:44:25,666 ♪But it's just the price I pay ♪ 745 00:44:25,749 --> 00:44:28,794 ♪Destiny is calling me ♪ 746 00:44:28,877 --> 00:44:33,465 ♪Open up my eager eyes ♪ 747 00:44:34,091 --> 00:44:37,177 ♪'Cause I'm Mr. Brightside ♪